It’s that time of the month to do a prompt again and today’s prompt definitely is worth writing about: A moment in time
We all have several bitter sweet moments in our life and while we remember some of them with every details, we completely forget others. Now the question is why do we remember some so strongly while totally forget the others. some moments are so strong that i can actually relive it in my mind again and again over and over again. At the same time, there have been times where i totally forget the name of the person i met some three minutes ago. Such moments also include some horrific incidents that are equally difficult to understand.
Science says that its very difficult for a women to let go of things and that women are more emotionally intelligent than men. But that does not mean that men are heartless but it just means that women allow themselves to feel more emotionally destroyed in times of crisis. It’s partially psychological too coz’ women tend to undergo more emotional situations in life than most of the men do.
When a woman loves you she will never forget how it felt to love you. But break her heart and she will never, ever let it go
I have like firsthand experience for this. There are days in my life when i still remember the person i loved with all my heart. This is a thing of past and at times that desire is so strong that i almost feel running back to him but at the same time i could never ever forget those bitter words that came out of his mouth. And probably i could never forgive him for that and that moment is so fresh that my heart refuses to let it go. It slashed my spirits into halves and left a forever scar on my faith. A broken heart can definitely darken a women’s spirit.
As a women i have learned one thing about most of our species and that is that “we never stop searching for love” even if the same concept sprinkled salt on our wounds. That is a price you pay being a women. Most of the women won’t even admit to this fact but its a fact, once a women tastes love, she cannot stop searching for it even after being dragged in mud. But like a coin has two sides, this behavior comes with a consequence. She would move on, live life again, get loved again, but would never forget the pain that was once instilled upon her. The horrible experience never fades away for most of the women. She will think of him often and all the bad things he did to her and that makes a relation very complicated. We, as a women carry all the baggage of painful moments through every relation we be into.
But on the brighter side majority of the women are LOYAL with a condition – “As long as they are given what they feel they need”. Treat her right, care for her, let her know how important she is to you and she will cross every ocean for you. She will be yours till the day she dies.
Just as she won’t ever forget how you hurt her, she wont even forget that feeling of being loved making her yours forever. Such feelings create moments.