People often say “I Don’t Fucking care” or “I don’t give a shit about anything” and in any kind of relationship, be it love or friendship, the person who cares less seem to have the most of the power. In the relationships, people often make statements like “Don’t be serious and don’t get hurt” but let me tell you one thing, you are not trying to portray yourself as someone who doesn’t care and is perfectly fine on their own, but you portray a weak and fearful picture of yourself.
People who doesn’t text back, doesn’t call back, doesn’t take the first move are the ones who have convinced themselves that being the other type is a potential damage to oneself. I have seen people with heartbreaks and suffering from loneliness and trust me that shit is not fun either. It’s devastating and it often takes a longer route to be okay again. But this situation makes me think about all those people out there who actually care for someone – I think they have a better idea. A young human heart is resilient and when the heart is broken, you are on a journey that is worth facing. It is a feeling worth experiencing and those never take this path are the ones who have convinced themselves that “they simply so not need it”. They have convinced themselves that they are fine, BUT THEY ARE NOT.
What people often do not realize is that those who care less are the ones usually ending up with a broken heart. It’s a human thing to crave for love, affection, the feeling of being cared etc. and if you deny this, you are DENYING HUMANITY. Having an “I don’t care” attitude is not something healthy and it just makes them feel less human. The level of that “less” decreases potentially.
There are two types of people, one who doesn’t care and one who cares too much and trust me both have the worst consequences. Hence a balance is required between both of them. You should not be extremes on any side. But yes do tell the people if you care for them because if you don’t “How the hell would they ever know” and if you continue too much with “I don’t give a shit” attitude, people would start believing you and you can be forever alone.
Life is a complex thing and I believe whatever side you are, there would be someone in your life to break the walls. Life is very short and people are too busy, they can vanish in a wink of an eye. If you keep telling yourself “I don’t care” you will be on a path where you always will be alone. But if you opt for the other path and your heart breaks, let it break coz’ eventually it would be fine. And you will see the world a lot more differently.